Some critics say this book is sexist against women. I don't see this book as sexist against women, rather, it's more like a reflection of behaviors and thinkings committed by men, reflected by women who happened to be with those men. And the book did a great job letting women know that.

"He is a man made up entirely of your excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life."

"The reason it's so painful when someone disappears is you have to face the fact that the person you loved had probably left you a long time before he grabbed his coat and scrammed. The hard part is realizing that he was lying to you, in some way, before the moment of vanishing."

"Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with."

Starbuck = dork

My two addictions combined into one!

This friday, I did somethings that I rarely do: 1)I put on a costume, 2)I took the Thriller dance class in a downtown dance studio (yes, I tried to learn Michael Jackson's famous moves). Since the theme of the dance was related to Halloween, my friends and I decided to put on some kind of costume. We headed to Blue Boutique in search of the perfect piece. Even though the costumes in the store are mostly low cut skirts, I found that most of them would fit my body pretty well because I am short ( so the skirt is actually not low cut for me). Anyways, I ended up picking a pair of wings. And thanks to Ennlee for lending me a white shirt, my costume was complete. :)


The dance moves were more difficult than it looks on the Thriller MTV, and I had a hard time following the instructor because half the time my view was blocked by some Zombie character or Tinkerbell or Cat woman. The night ended with us girls sipping hot drinks in Coffee Garden and getting kicked out as the last customers around midnight. Hahaha. It was definitely a nice way to end a stressful work week.

Quote du jour

"We are all damaged, and it's ok". ---- director of "Smart People"